Hi friends I am Rameez Rashid. Recently I got answers to my unanswered questions related to speech that I want to share with you guys.
Q: Why I stammer on my name most of the times?
Ans:I cannot use any substitution while telling my name.I must admit here I have even told wrong name where I can (specially to gals).
Q: Why I stammer more when I am with my family?
Ans:When I am with my family or with the people who know about my stammering I talk normally.While I talk to strangers substitution of words comes naturally.
Questions were many but answer was the same ie substitution of words.
When I joined therapy and started talking in ROS style. I still used these substitutions.One day I told myself I am using these substitutions. What will happen where I cannot use substitutions.The answer was I will stammer.
By using substitutions we r hindering our stammering. If we hinder our stammering there is noway we can overcome it. By using substitutions we r doing wrong to our own self. If we will use substitutions the problem still remains there.
Now I have stopped using substitutions. I must admit here when u will stop these substitutions u will stammer more than the normal.But that the fun when u will talk in ROS style and will use proper articulation of words without using substitutions it will b difficult initially but the time u will get used to it.That is the only way one can over come his stammering.
It takes alot of guts to do that.
I have got the guts
DO U HAVE.,